Before you draw conclusions be aware of the condition of your own heart. Many times we accept concepts or thoughts about people or situations into our understanding without acknowledging that our understanding may be skewed according to unresolved issues within our own hearts. The pure in heart will see God (Matthew 5:8). Purity of heart allows you to see God as He really is in all of His perfection. It is a process of working through issues to remove whatever is a mixing agent that clouds the way we see Him and therefore situations and other people. Whatever still lies within your heart clouds your view. The purer your heart becomes the clearer you will see accurately.
What Do You See?